In a world of instant Internet feedback, we have become addicted to approval. Beyond acceptance, appreciation and attention, one of an individual's greatest desires is to be understood. Just as giving is a precursor to receiving, seeking first to understand is essential to being understood. And active listening is the key.

The Win-Win mentality mixes empathy, confidence, sensitivity and bravery to create what Franklin / Covey calls, "that balance between courage and consideration".

Forward progress happens when we "put first things first". Deciding what's important and moving it to the top of your to-do list is the foundation of every productive day.

Those who have benefited from integrating "Beginning with the end in mind" into their daily routines will tell you that this is not an easy process. And it never ends. Like any worthwhile endeavor, it is a muscle that, when continually exercised, gets stronger.

Success habits are enduring ideas to be continually pondered, practiced and sculpted to fit our own unique definition of purpose and passion. And the first habit is this: Be Proactive.

"Becoming is a lifelong quest," the leader said. "We are imperfect beings but the wisdom that is revealed in the very act of service can guide us toward life's sunset, with great power in our hands and peace in our hearts. This is The Ultimate Truth."

As human beings, we owe allegiance to those we choose to serve so long as it's a mutually beneficial relationship. Part of that allegiance is being willing to share the feedback they need to hear, even if it's uncomfortable, making sure they understand that it's coming from a place of love and support. Feedback is the breakfast of champions. Sometimes it can taste bitter, but ideas on how to move forward can help the recipient quickly digest it and grow.

Our planet is populated with both bad and good people. Our job is to do what we can to bring those in darkness into the light. Ben Ferencz shows us that taking whatever action we can to alleviate suffering is the most powerful way to stay positive in a negative world.

Deconstruct every great achievement and you will find a linchpin at the center; that indispensable person with vision and the skills to make the dream real.